At the core of every relationship—whether with a child, partner, or friend—is the need to feel seen and valued. For parents with intense children, this often gets buried under battles about behavior. But focusing on the heart changes everything. “When…
The Power of Language in Calming Stormy Relationships
Words matter. They can either inflame a tense situation—or open a path to connection. Parents of intense children often discover this the hard way. But here’s the surprising part: the same principles apply to adult relationships. Depersonalize the Moment…
Matching Energy Without Fueling the Fire
How to Transform Intense Relationships with Kids (and Adults) We all know that person—whether it’s a child, spouse, or colleague—who seems to come in “hot.” Their emotions are strong, their energy is big, and sometimes it feels like you’re always…